Friday, June 22, 2012

Is Cad and Bitch Culture Intractably Horrible for Everyone?

Commenter fschmidt brought up a good point in response to a previous post:
What the average woman experiences in the feminist world is being hit on constantly by players. The feminist world is bad for both decent men and decent women. The feminist world is designed for sluts and cads (players). Women in feminist societies have a bitch shield because they need one to discourage constantly being hit on. Women can't be particularly blamed for this, the whole society and culture is rotten to the core.
Once I spent a short amount of time in a bar with some women who were not used to the scene. They emerged completely distraught, almost as if they had been violated. Apparently, they were constantly being hit on in the short time span we were there. They were not immodestly dressed, either.

The only women who seem to voluntarily enter such establishments are the bitchy, conceited types. You can almost feel the bitchiness radiating off of some of them. One wonders if they were originally "good girls" who ended up ruined by the environment.

As far as I can tell, this problem is not so bad if you avoid the nightlife (nightmare?) scene. How long will that last, however? PUAs are already promoting "day game," which threatens to bring this monstrosity out onto the streets in broad daylight.

I just wonder how it is possible to have a long-term relationship lasting more than a few years with this kind of social climate. If a woman is hit on all the time, even if she's modestly dressed, how is she going to remain bearable in a relationship? How will she resist cheating with so much temptation? Just like I'm tempted to eat a whole bag of chips if the bag is right next to me, I think even the most self-controlled woman is tempted to cheat if guys are constantly coming on to her. Especially if her partner is not really high-status.

I see almost no way out of this aside from transplanting yourself out of the current culture to somewhere isolated and leading a self-sustaining pastoral lifestyle of some sort. The Amish seem to have figured this out, and will probably fare better because of it.

1 comment:

  1. I think life for a decent women in a feminist culture is sort of like being in one of those horror movies with zombies or vampires where, when they bite you, you become one of them. Once a decent woman has had sex with a few cads (players), she is no longer decent. She has been transformed into one of them, a slut. This transformation is a change in brain chemistry involving oxytocin. Casual sex with multiple men makes women less responsive to oxytocin which is how she is transformed into a slut. Once this happens, she (the slut) really hates decent men. She has truly become part of the horror of our horrible society.

    I would guess that those few women that manage to hold out and not become corrupted would tend to just close in on themselves. But I don't know for sure because I have never met one. I have never met a decent woman in America.

    I have been married to a woman from Mexico for 21 years now, so it can work. Women are influenced by their environment, so the key is to make sure that your wife has decent friends who are not part of mainstream culture. The easiest way to do this is to join a decent religion where your wife can find decent friends. This becomes even more important if you have a daughter.

    The problem is definitely not just with nightlife. My wife has been hit on a lot in regular settings. Our culture is completely rotten. A decent woman understands this and will not be attracted to cads. It is important to understand that cads are omegas and that only sluts are really attracted to cads. Decent women are attracted to true alphas (not cads/players). But true alphas are very rare.